Every couple hopes to have a happy marriage, where they respect each other like guests and love each other as they did at the beginning, working together to create a beautiful life. But the reality is cruel. Many couples argue endlessly and have numerous conflicts after getting married, eventually going their separate ways. In fact, in the process of getting along as a couple, mutual communication is very important. If you want to have a good relationship, these 5 topics of conversation are essential. Have you done them?

1.Talk about the beauty of the past love
Love is very beautiful. After getting married, the feelings between the couple will gradually be diluted by the daily necessities of life. At this time, the couple should talk more about the things they experienced together when they were in love, recall the little things you have done together in the past, the touching things and crazy things you have done for each other, and you can also talk about all the stories that happened from the moment you met to the moment you fell in love. For example, how the husband chased after the wife at the beginning, how long it took and how much effort he spent to catch up with her. Just like chatting with an old friend, the couple can open up and talk about the past to enhance their feelings for each other.

2.Talk about the secrets in each other’s hearts
Everyone has their own little secrets. When couples live together, you can often talk about the secrets in your hearts. You can talk about the embarrassing things you did when you were a child, the person you had a crush on when you were in school, and even the fact that you have hidden private money after getting married. When you tell your partner all the secrets in your heart, it will make your partner feel particularly secure, because you are being honest with him and your trust in him is a kind of affirmation. Only by often talking about the secrets in each other’s hearts can the couple enhance their understanding of each other and the marriage will be more harmonious.

3.Talk about the troubles in work and life
Couples need to communicate and exchange more when living together, especially about some things in work and life. If you feel very annoyed but keep it in your heart and don’t say it out, you will feel very depressed. After a long time, you will feel that the other party doesn’t understand you. Only by often talking to your partner about the troubles in your work and life can your partner share your worries, know your true thoughts, and understand you better. Therefore, if you have a problem, you should say it out in time. Holding it in alone will not solve any problem, but will also make the relationship between the couple worse. Only by often sharing your confusion with each other can the relationship between the couple be better.

4.Talk about common interests and hobbies
It is not easy for couples to get along, and it is also not easy to have common interests and hobbies. If two people don’t have things they like to do together, life will be relatively boring and their feelings will not be sublimated. Therefore, in this regard, you must find the common interests and hobbies of both parties. Then, in the process of getting along, often talk about the things you want to do and do them together, so that life will be full of fun. You can talk about going shopping and buying groceries together on the weekend, going to the movies to relax together, going on a trip and adventure together, going to exercise and fitness together. The more you talk and do, the closer your relationship will be.

5.Talk about the happy life in the future
The most romantic thing I can think of is to grow old with you slowly. The happiest thing for a couple is to hold hands and grow old together. Everyone is full of fantasies about the future. You can often talk about the happy life in the future, make a plan for the future, and imagine what you will be doing together decades later. This will make you more confident about the future, have a beautiful vision for the future, and then work hard towards this goal together, encouraging and supporting each other, and your feelings will become stronger and stronger.
If you often talk about these 5 topics with your partner in the process of getting along, your relationship will get better and better.