Although everyone should have had experiences in love, as the saying goes, “Love comes without knowing where it begins, and it grows deeper and deeper.” Many times, people simply don’t notice that they have a crush on someone.
This time, let’s explore the four habits that people may have when they have a crush on someone. See if you have experienced any of them?
Frequently stalk the social media platforms of the person you have a crush on.
Although it’s not as pathological as the male protagonist in the American TV series “You” who stalks the other person, you will often itch to stalk his Facebook and Instagram.
Perhaps you don’t even notice it yourself. In addition to subconsciously clicking in to watch as soon as you see his updates such as Instagram Stories, you will also check his activities on social media platforms more regularly than an alarm clock, such as whose posts he has liked and who he has followed, etc., in order to keep up with his movements at all times and know what he is doing.
Join the “investigation group”.
The school he attended, his circle of friends, his past romantic experiences, his favorite foods, etc. are all things you want to know. So you keep asking his friends around him, and even go to his friends’ social media platforms and search through everything related to him with sharp eyes, in order to learn more about his hobbies and interests so that you can have common topics with him and more easily enter his heart.
Want to share things you like with him but are afraid of bothering him.
Anxiety and hesitation are probably the taste of having a crush! When you see a movie he might like, eat delicious food, encounter interesting little episodes in daily life, or take a beautiful scenery photo, you really want to share it with him immediately to give yourself more opportunities to understand him deeply, deepen his impression and favorability of you, and let him get used to your existence.
At the same time, you are worried that whether you will be too annoying and end up achieving the opposite result. As a result, every time before sending a message, you have to think twice and carefully choose every word. Then you wait anxiously for a reply and repeat this cycle.
Be very sensitive to everything about him.
You will be very excited and even smile when you see his updates on Facebook and Instagram. But if there are photos involving him and the opposite sex, you will be in a low mood and overthink. If they are overly intimate, you will even be jealous. And you will constantly guess from the words and recent status whether it is his new girlfriend.
You can’t help but secretly get excited about every word, every status, and even every emoji he posts, wondering if it has something to do with you or if there is an implied meaning. Your mood is like a roller coaster.
After reading the above four points, do you think they are accurate? Do you also think of other symptoms of having a crush on someone?
