Congratulations! Your performance during the date is truly impeccable.
However, don’t be too careless. You should know that the date is actually not over yet. Maintaining the relationship is the most important part of a date. So let’s take a look at what should be done after a date.
I. Timely Communication
Expressing Feelings
On the evening after the date or as soon as possible when a suitable time is found, send a message to the other person to sincerely express your feelings about this date. For example, you can say, “I had a great time with you today. I really enjoyed the things we did together, especially the chat while walking in the park, which made me understand us better.” Such an expression can let the other person know that you value the date and have a positive attitude towards being with him/her.
Mentioning Details
Mention some details of the date during the communication. This will make the other person feel that you really participated in the date with your heart and have a deep memory of the date. For example, “I think the dessert in that restaurant was very delicious. You recommended it so well.” or “The story about your travel that you told today was very interesting. I can’t forget it.” These details will deepen the emotional connection between each other.
II. Maintaining an Appropriate Frequency of Contact
Initial Contact
In the few days after the date, the frequency of contact can be appropriately increased. For example, send one or two messages every day, asking how the other person’s day was or sharing some small things in your own life, like “I saw a very cute puppy on my way to work today. How was your day?” Such interactions can keep the relationship between you hot and also let the other person understand your life better.
Subsequent Adjustment
As time passes, gradually adjust the frequency of contact according to the other person’s response and the development of the relationship between you. If the other person responds positively and the communication between you is smooth, then a relatively frequent contact can be continued; but if the other person’s response is rather flat or not very positive, then the frequency of contact needs to be appropriately reduced to give the other person more space and avoid putting pressure on him/her.
III. Planning the Next Meeting
Proposing at the Right Time
At an appropriate time, the idea of the next meeting can be proposed. There is no need to be too hasty. It can be put forward when the topic naturally involves some interesting activities or places during your chat. For example, when you are talking about food, you can say, “I heard there is a new restaurant with very good reviews. We can go and try it next time.” Or when you mention a movie that is about to be released, you can say, “That movie looks very interesting. Do we want to go and see it together?” Such a proposal is both natural and not too deliberate.
Discussing Together
After you propose the idea of the next meeting, discuss the time, place and activity content of the meeting with the other person. Respect the other person’s opinions and suggestions to ensure that the next meeting is something that both parties look forward to and are willing to participate in. This can not only increase the other person’s expectation for the next meeting, but also show your respect and importance for the other person.
IV. Self-Improvement
Enriching Life
After the date, continue to enrich your own life, cultivate new hobbies and participate in various activities. This can not only make your own life more fulfilling and interesting, but also bring more topics and freshness to the other person when you meet next time. For example, you can sign up for a painting class to learn painting skills and then share your interesting experiences and gains during the painting process with the other person when you meet next time.
Self-Growth
Pay attention to self-growth and improve your knowledge level and inner cultivation. Reading books, learning new skills or participating in training courses are all good choices. A person who is constantly growing and improving is more attractive and the other person will be more willing to continue to develop the relationship with you. For example, you can learn a new foreign language and greet the other person in the new foreign language when you meet next time, which will bring a surprise to the other person.
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Hello everyone! I am Lara S Swenson, the author of “EasyLoveDating”. You can also call me EasyLove. Here, I hope to share all the good advice and guidance related to dating with everyone. Please remember that this is all free! I hope everyone subscribes to receive the latest dating information.
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